Ya know, it has been 20 years. 25 together.
Not every day is easy. Not every day I like him. Several times a week, I look at him and say........'Wow, really' (or something along those lines :) ) when it comes to something he has said, or done, or acted, or whatever.
We dont see 'eye to eye' on many things..........
our personalities are completely opposite.............
he frustrates me...........
I frustrate him............
there are days when I dont want to even talk to him because he's made me mad (Yeah, I can do the silent treatment) (but dont worry, I get over it....sometimes within the day, couple of hours) :)................
but..............
I am saying all of this to say....
no matter what....
this guy and I are stuck together!
We are in the period of life to where our girls really dont 'need' us anymore.
Meaning, they are living their best life, and we are just here for moral support! ha!
So, with all of this being said......
I think Tyler and I are doing just fine.
We are enjoying our own space.........meaning, he watches FOX News and I read a book but in the same turn, we love a good documentary or crime movie together. We date. We laugh. We do impromptu 'fun things'.........like a bike ride around the neighborhood just soaking up a beautiful afternoon.
Small things matter....
and even in the mundane, if its worth it, you have to put the work in....
so, thats what we do! Each in our own ways....
each with how we know how....
and we both make it work!
Just him and I.........
out soaking up a beautiful afternoon!.............
of my legs burning because he chose to go up a lot of hills! :)
This is called sacrifice....and that is what I did! ha!
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